Self and Family Advocacy

Leading the Way

Advocacy can look different for everyone. Some people speak up for themselves—that’s called self-advocacy. Others may need support to express their choices, especially if they communicate in nontraditional ways or need help understanding options.


That’s where family advocacy often comes in. Families who know and love someone deeply can help share their wants and needs when the person can’t do that on their own. But even then, the goal is to support—not replace—the person’s voice.


Together, self-advocates and families help make sure people with developmental disabilities are included in decisions, respected, and heard and that people with lived experiences are leading change across Virginia.

Why It Matters

Advocacy is more than just speaking—it’s about being seen, included, and respected. When people with developmental disabilities are heard, whether directly or with support from a family member, systems work better. Services become more responsive, communities become more inclusive, and policies reflect real-life needs. People also grow stronger, more confident, and more connected. Families play a key role—especially when they help communicate what their loved one wants or needs without speaking over them. Self-advocates and families working together make a real difference.

How We Support Self-Advocates

We support self-advocates through the ALLY Alliance—a statewide network led by and for people with developmental disabilities. From trainings and public speaking opportunities to leadership roles and community organizing, self-advocates are building power and creating change. We help make sure their voices are heard, their ideas shape policies, and their lived experiences guide the future.


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How We Support Family Advocates

Families play a critical role in advocacy—especially when someone needs help to be heard. Through our Family Advocacy work, we support families to understand systems, connect with resources, and advocate with and for their loved ones in ways that center the person. Whether it’s navigating services or shaping broader change, we’re here to help families be informed, confident, and connected.


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